Pick up your kids, people!!!
I called the agency today and asked “what’s up?” and our caseworker said that basically the transition home is pretty full, and when the next wave of parents go and pick up their kids, there wil be more beds free, and then, supposedly, our children will appear in the transition home and we will get a referral.
So. Pick up your kids, people!!!
[I hope you realize that this post is laden with sarcastic overtones: The only thing that families who have referrals want to do, most in the world, now, is pick up their kids.]
- Or more appropriately, I sure hope you all hear about your medicals, visas, and other travel necessesities soon. I already hoped before, but now I am I am also selfishly motivated. So I hope MORE.
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Now at least I have some answer when people ask… “Any news on the adoption?” I am glad that they ask, even if I don’t have anything more substantive to report than “the transition home is full.” At least when people ask, I am reminded that eventually this all will actually happen and I will become a mommy. Because, day to day, it doesn’t feel real anymore.
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I was away for a couple days and couldn’t check my email. I asked Jrock to do it, and he said “there won’t be any news anyway,” and I said “you’re probably right,” and left it until the next day. That didn’t stop me from buying a couple of bibs and a stove barrier-thingy at IKEA on the way home through Coquitlam, of course
Nicky




Here’s to people picking up their kids!!! and buying kidlet stuff at IKEA!
Rana
Ok seriously….this is getting a little ridiculous for both you and me. I have graduated into the quite negative “it’s never going to happen” stage. I’m not sure what my agency’s reason is but not much I can do about it anywaym sigh….
I have a feeling that maybe you, me, and Cinn will all get our referrals very close together…..woohoo then there will be some serious celebrating going on around here!
Thinking of you!
Ricki
That’s true…. boy, it would be nice if we travelled together too!
This waiting? It sucks. It sucks HARD. I don’t even ask why anymore.
If I have to tell One. More. Person. that “It should be any time now”, I am going to punt my adoption file folder across the room.
But the shopping for kids’ stuff at Ikea? That is GOOD.
I’m so glad you asked, and I’m so glad you posted what she said. Now, I just want to see one person ahead of us with a similar referral request receive their referral – just so I know that maybe we’ll get one too someday – but that hasn’t happened for a couple of months now. BLAH. Yes. I need to shop too.
I actually suspected that the TH being full was why this was taking so long for you and it is actually an encouragement to me too since now that they are doing the medicals faster, the “turnover” should start picking up. I want you to get your referral for two reason, the first is you have been waiting so long and I have been following your journey since before the beginning and I am so excited for you and the second is purely selfish…we are requesting pretty much exactly the same as you so once you get your referral, we move up one spot in the cue!!! How is that for brutally honest! Anyway, travel dates are coming up so now there is even more reason to pray that that speeds up. Any week now!
It’s going to happen! You are going to be a Mommy, I promise. I really wish I could tell you when … After trying to conceive for 3 years I’m not sure which expectation was worse. At least with adoption you know for sure that it is coming at some point. You’ve been waiting a heck of a long time and I’m sure that the good news is just around the corner. The end of April and beginning of May is going to be a constant stream of traffic from Canada to Ethiopia.
I can’t wait to hear that there are empty beds in the TH and I’ll be even more excited to hear about the little ones filling them!!!
I think that a lot of people go through this stage with the adopting…at least everyone I’ve ever met has! And while it totally sucks, I like to think that it’s generally when we’ve stopped watching the kettle that it always, inevitably, boils. (usually boils over, for me) So I have my fingers crossed for you that your kettle is REALLY close to boiling…don’t worry, it is real, you will be a fabulous, overwhelmed, tired and stressed MOMMY very soon
I’ll echo that one too, pick the kids up!!! We need some good news around us!!
Just for the record, I did check the e-mail that night!
o.